Remember way back when.. when I had a blog and actually used it to fill everyone in on the absolute horrors of dating? Yea me too. And I've seriously been slacking. Its not like dating over the last 5 years has gotten any better. One shit ass waste of a 3 month relationship and too many not really relationships but we might as well act like it situations and I'm over it.
Since when is it ok for guys to start out any potential relationship by being dishonest from the beginning? It is their fault for doing it, or my own for actually believing people when they say things? When you say that you don't want to date just to date and actually have a relationship, why would a girl be wrong to believe that? So you haven't earned trust completely, but who wants to go into every relationship not believing someone when they say things to you? We aren't 20 yr old kids just dating around and trying to get laid, are we? You wouldn't expect that at almost 30 but holy cow do I know how to pick em. And then to put your own feelings aside because you don't want to be that girl who is needy, or is pushy about being together when the entire time, the other person didn't want the same things as you anyway. What a waste of my weekends and my time (I'm getting my MBA now and couldn't be any more annoyed at what a waste of valuable study time I lost) spent hanging out with your friends and your family when you had zero intention of it going anywhere but your bedroom- and your laundry room- because let's be real, no one could deal with that mess and I'm too OCD and helpful for my own good.
Would our fathers have ever treated our mothers this way? How would guys feel if whoever their sister was dating treated her this way? I'm sure punches would be thrown. The lies or fibs we tell? The constant need to watch porn or message way too many girls just because they can, looking for some validation that no one can give because they just aren't ready for a relationship but, would rather take down an innocent bystander just because they got so close. Just because you introduce someone to your family and friends as your "not girlfriend", doesn't make you any less of a fuckboy.
